CamiDawg wrote:

ALSO, usually when we talk about this we will talk about "the person we marry" and never just us. We haven't really gotten to the point where I'm saying "when I marry you..." Too complicated!

I hate thinking about that. I remember when I used to feel the same way, but eventually it just progressed into "When we get married..." and talking about how many kids we want togther.

Actually it's strange, when we first got together, we were so in love that he talked about marriage from day 1. Then it became a little more "real" and that stopped for a while. Now it's finally coming back and I'm glad because you don't want them to think you are pressuring them, but it's nice to know where their head is, even if it's "I want to marry YOU... in 10 years."