My boyfriend and I discussed it really early in our relationship. We were just talking about different things and that was brought up. We're both on the same page so it was a good conversation to have. Now we fight over names (and I'm not anywhere near being pregnant).

A few years ago though, I didn't want kids and wasn't even sure I wanted to get married. I was on a date with a guy (who I had known for a while) and for whatever reason he asked me if I wanted kids, I told him no, but that could change. He then told me he never wanted kids. Him saying that made me realize that I didn't like the idea that if we were to get serious that the option to have kids was definitely off the table.