I think that if they really don't want kids/marriage that it's really shitty to get into a relationship with someone who does, especially if the person lied about it in the beginning - like it seems your ex did, dc chick.

I guess it's just a perfect world that everyone will be honest and open about things. It just makes me realize even more how much you are really putting on the line when you get into a relationship with someone. It's like you are opening yourself up to get hurt every time you get involved with someone.