The thing is I've just been screwed over so many time I don't trust anyone and I have the hardest time letting my guard down. He says that it's hard because they dated for 9 months. I just got out of a 9 month relationship myself, I was dumped on Valentines Day. Yeah it was painfully hard, but I grew up, grew some balls, and kicked him out of my life. He tries to get back with me to this day, every other week he sends me messages. Like I said, call me crazy, but it's just how I feel about exe's. They are your ex for a reason. Just don't kiss me and tell me daily how much you like me and want to see me when you're still hung up on her, because it's sending me the wrong message and I won't be getting involved.