brittdelano wrote:
They had just broken up when me and him started talking, and I told him from day 1 that I wasn't getting involved with a guy that was still friends with his ex. Call me crazy, but that's just how I am. Actually just the other day he told me that he deleted her completely.


To not allow any guy you date to be friends with their ex's is a little immature. My HUSBAND is good friends with his ex from high school. They dated for 2 years. I don't mind one bit, because I actually became friends with her too and she is a very nice girl. She has a boyfriend and two kids, he is married, and they are friends. End of story. I trust him so there is no issue.

But to be fair, if he said he deleted her completely, and is now hanging out with her...then yes, that is a red flag. But to now allow any guy you're interested in to be friends with an ex from the getgo is just plain silly.