Yeah two of the four bridesmaids knew. One of them being a very good friend of mine. And all of his friends knew and all of the friends she has made in her new town.

Literally everyone but family members.

I just feel like my trust was completely betrayed by not only her but people that are my friends as well. Especially when I found out that my ex knew. We had been dating at the time of their real wedding and my BIL told him, so essentially he kept it from me too.