They are closed to new members, but thanks so much for the thought, lol. I'm so upset and I shouldn't be, its just the internet. But I was texting these girls and we were friends, and they conspire behind my back to do this, when one of them abadoned the board anyways!

We have some insiders from this guy's life(he's dead) and so that's what the private threads are for. Some dude with 100 posts wanted to get into the private areas and I raised concern over that to the mods, and I get kicked off because "this is a laid-back board"

I'm one of the founding members, and some newbie sent me a harassing PM for moving a photo to a private thread(at the photo owner's request). She got banned for 7 days, that's it.