VelvetRope11 wrote:
I don't think they're tacky, but I wouldn't want them or want them for my own wedding. If I RSVP'd for your wedding, it's my calandar, I don't need a magnet.
save the dates come before the invitation with the rsvp. its traditionally meant to give those who would be coming from out of town enough notice to request time off of work and make travel arrangements. its become more of a trend lately even if you're just inviting people from your hometown who would probably come even if you invited them the day before the wedding...