JeterFan wrote:
I think John is a douche-regardless of who he happens to be dating. My problem is with women calling a 40 year old woman old. These same women wouldn't consider a 40 year old man old. Just plain ridiculous. image
It's not that 40 is old. It's just that she looks definitely more than 40 and he looks like he is still in his twenty and being together underlined that difference. Halle and her man, or even Demi Moore and her husband don't have that mother-son look when they are together.

Plus Mayer acting like a juvenile douche doesn't help. Most of the time, women tend to like masculine features and acts in a man, hence the fact that a woman is much more younger than a man tend to be more acceptable. But when a man looks and acts like a child and the woman looks like she is 2 times her senior and tends to be the one who acts more masculine, in charge, then it's weird....it's like a master - young gigolo type of relationship, the kind that e-masculate men and masculinize women. Madonna has that type of relationship now.

When you look at Demi or Halle's men, you have the feeling that they are masculine. They are in charge and mature. They are men and equal their women in spite of their youtH, not men-child with a maturte womAn. Mayer is not in charge and is not masculine in that relationship. He is a doucvhe and a puppy and it makes Jennifer looks like a desperate old (by comparison) nympho and that is sad.