insomniachollie wrote:
yet I still find it odd that you originally posted it asking for advice on how to stay away from someone that tempted you.


That confused me at first too (I think I posted on that somewhere in here image) but now I'm guessing TennMann probably just didn't want to say that this was all happening to her at first, hence she passed it off as hypothetical and didn't explain that she'd be the cheated and not the cheater in this situation. I think that just led to confusion as people then looked at it from the cheater's point of view until she told us all the truth.

Yea, I guess I just couldn't imagine getting cheated on and then posting something that would lead people to respond with things directed towards the other party? Instead she pretended it was hypothetical and posted it from the cheater's perspective. Sort of an odd way to get advice.