yet I still find it odd that you originally posted it asking for advice on how to stay away from someone that tempted you.


That confused me at first too (I think I posted on that somewhere in here ) but now I'm guessing TennMann probably just didn't want to say that this was all happening to her at first, hence she passed it off as hypothetical and didn't explain that she'd be the cheated and not the cheater in this situation. I think that just led to confusion as people then looked at it from the cheater's point of view until she told us all the truth.