I never put words in your mouth. You said it was "especially" unforgivable due to the amount of time they have been married, but I just think it's equally unacceptable at any time during a marriage.


That's not what you said though. You didn't just say you believe it's always equally unacceptable, you asked "when is it acceptable" as if I had suggested it ever was.

Still, I suppose we'll have to agree to disagree.