TennMannMusic wrote:
Okay.. again.. I am not the person that has done the cheating. Infact its the other way around.. except I am supposedly in the dark.

Why in the world, if you are the one being cheated on, would you ask for advice on how to refrain from cheating?

And also... you do realise that in admitting you're the one being cheated on you also just admitted that this is not hypothetical, right? Dump both their asses, particularly this so called "best friend." With friends like that....