we went in on the auction together. she said she sent me the money, but somehow it got lost in the mail. (I could understand that. shit happens.) but then she said she was going to send me a new check. everytime i IMed her, i never asked for the money. I was just like 'hey what's up'....trying to get a convo going first.

she stayed at my house, not a hotel. she was my friend...i trusted her that she'd pay me back.