ok here is the story.

i was supposed to receive the check from her like 4 days after the auction ended, but i never got it, so weeks later i asked her if she still wanted the ticket cuz i didnt get her money, and she said she sent it out weeks ago. i told her it must've gotten lost in the mail, and she said she checked and the check was never cashed, and she said she would send me a new one. so i wait for the new check, and still nothing from her. i would try talking to her on AIM just saying hi and stuff, and she would just ignore my IMs. she ignored Kim's (pixiedust's) IMs too (she was gonna go to the concert with us but couldnt). anyway, so after months of being ignored by val, she all of a sudden reappeared like 2 weeks before the concert and started talking to us. she said that she might not be able to go to the show cuz she couldnt get the day off work. so in my head i was thinkin', 'so this whole time she never even attempted to send me the new check?". but then i was like whatever, she'll pay me for it if she can go (cuz she's from maine, and she was gonna come stay at my house in mass cuz it's a far drive). so then a few days before the show, she told me she can go, and that she would give me the money when she got to my house. so before she made her trip to my house, she said she had some car trouble, and that she needed to use some of that ticket money to pay for it, and that she'd have about $80 for me when she got here. i said ok thats fine, cuz i figured she'd just pay me the rest later. so when she got here, everything was cool, we went to the show, had a good time, etc. the next morn before she left, she said she didnt bring her checkbook, and that she didnt have time to go to the bank, so she'd send me a check when got home. i said ok and trusted her.

so after like 2 weeks, i tried contacting her. i called her and she never picked up or called me back. i saw her on aim a few days later (like the end of august) and asked about the money, and she said she'd send it out to me the very next day. so i wait and wait, and still nothing. so then i call her and still no answer. on sept 23rd, she texted me and said she was at a friend's camp for a few days with no reception, and that she was getting her 'vacation check' soon and that she wanted to use that to pay me back. in my head i was like wtf?? last time i spoke to u u said u'd send it out THE VERY NEXT FUCKIN DAY. so im like whatever, just send it to me asap and to let me know she she sends it so i know when to expect it. so i wait and wait, and still nothing. so at the end of nov., i texted her and asked her if it was possible for her to send me the check so that i have it by dec 12th b/c i had a lot of bills due around then. she never responded. i texted her again yesterday and still no response. the reason i text her is b/c she doesnt pick up my calls. i know with texting, she def. sees it.