I think you are the one looking at it from one side, especially when you don't see where I said I UNDERSTAND WHY THEY WERE MAD AND WHY THEY FELT THE WAY THEY DID. I mean really, how can you put it more plainly than that.

Being able to look at it from more than one side also means being able to say yeah, I understand why they were mad and yeah I think they have a right to feel anyway they feel, but I also understand why Justin did what he did, and don't think that makes him the bad guy. That's like the perfect example of looking at it from both sides.