I get you. I do. Which is one of the reasons why I just had to clarify because what you said bothered me so much. I ADORE Ian. ADORE. I'm the biggest Tolkien-head you could imagine and I've also loved him since I discovered Tolkien. I've even written him letters and had him respond to me. I admire him as a man and actor.

I read what you said on my phone and at the time couldn't read everything fully but from your post alone I thought there was some inclination that Ian was apart of everything. That freaked me out, but then I actually read the article and went, Hold up --- he's nowhere to be found! Don't start stuff!

I'm glad you responded so that I could respond. I wasn't targeting you or anything I just had to say something. It's too easy nowadays to say one thing and have it spread like that --- especially something like this.

With that being said I just found this randomly online (which made me come back to this post --- wondered if there was an update). It could just be cover, or it could be nothing, or it could be something. Who knows. That's the saddest thing. I thought it was interesting though.

https://www.tmz.com/2014/04/20/bryan-singer-disney-star-he-didnt-rape-me-michael-egan-matthew-smith/

I'm almost wondering if maybe Singer is just a Twink lover and it's gotten blown out of proportion. I'm not defending him by ANY means, but sometimes there are two sides to a story. This guy who's been raped at one of his parties... I don't even want to start typing out the different probabilities of what happened because there are so many. My best friend is a gay man and I just remember him in HS getting into stuff that was almost the exact, EXACT, same. He never said anything about it though because the entire party atmosphere just happens and regardless of age sometimes things just happen. How does a 14/15 year old even get to one of these parties? You just know someone and that person lets you in, then that person and that person and it leads to everything else. It's not one sole person to blame. 

It's disgusting regardless, I know. I'm not trying to justify it it's just... There are so many factors. Who knows what really happened. I don't doubt that this man was molested and / or raped at one of these parties, but how it happened or who did it I don't know. When you involve so many factors (people, drugs, alcohol etc.) you lose control and it easily becomes a guessing game. 


Edited By: dear lady 04/21/2014 3:36 AM. Edited 1 times.