Oh, we hadn't just had sex. We were just going to bed. When he got home our friend had to unexpectedly crash in our guest room, so we didn't really have a chance to talk about anything until we went to bed because this friend was being a third wheel.

I'll mention it sometime soon. The place we were thinking of having the ceremony in is not only very affordable, but it's a theatre so there's lots of seating so anyone could come. I really wouldn't mind this idea, and it would definitely aleviate a lot of stress.