bananastand wrote:
If I were you I'd be worried that she'd constantly be making the wedding about her throughout the whole process. She'll probably be upset if you don't pay enough attention to her during the ceremony and reception.



I'm gonna agree with this. I'm sorry to say this, but your friend sounds super-weird for asking this of you. 
I swear, JJB has introduced me to the worst side of people when it comes to weddings. It's like all decency, common sense and home training completely gets tossed out the window when someone is getting married/participating in someone else's wedding.




Back to the subject, I wouldn't really ever use again a bag with 'bridesmaid' and/or my name on it, except to carry lunch to work or as a resusable grocery bag or something like that. 
I'd probably be more inclined to re-use it if it were either just my initials, it had NOTHING on it or there was a design of some sort.

You can do your own tote bag design at VistaPrint for pretty cheap: