but i think the other husband has that great control and organizational skills because he meshes well with his wives and they all mesh well as a whole. Kody and the wives don't mesh well, they don't seem to set differences aside as well has the other husbands wives.

Like I feel like other other husband has a "type" of women he goes for, granted the two of the 3 are twin sisters, but they could be complete opposite. Kody just seems to be all over the board with the wives and they don't mesh well.