The other husband really seemed to have great control and organizational skills to handle 3 wives and the kids. Even Kody's wives and kids noticed it and comment on their utter chaos. It's also more and more evident, that when Kody gets stressed, he starts to freak out. I was just rolling my eyes when Kody said he was trying to find a 25 bedrooms house with 4 kitchens in Vegas! Maybe the old Spelling mansion!