WarmFuzzies19 wrote:
Mistress Darcy wrote:
I want to know which parties people are attending where there is absolutely no obligation to buy anything and the hosts get more cash for having people there. I have had the exact opposite experiences-made to feel guilty if I am eating and drinking and not buying and overwhelming obligation to the point of ending friendships over it


You always have the most dramatic anecdotes lol. You ended friendships because of these parties? Like friendships plural? Why would you even keep going to them after the first one?
I was basically forced to go to two, hated them, politely declined a certain pack of friends who kept on inviting me, they kept on inviting me on facebook over and over and over again as well as texting me invites asking me to come so I eventually phased them out of my life. Sorry if that is overly dramatic for you! It never occurred to me that I would be the only person to experience a few overzealous high school friends nagging me about those stupid parties, but I guess my experience isn't the norm.