Mistress Darcy wrote:
I want to know which parties people are attending where there is absolutely no obligation to buy anything and the hosts get more cash for having people there. I have had the exact opposite experiences-made to feel guilty if I am eating and drinking and not buying and overwhelming obligation to the point of ending friendships over it


You always have the most dramatic anecdotes lol. You ended friendships because of these parties? Like friendships plural? Why would you even keep going to them after the first one?