Maybe, to all of the ladies in waiting, he's just not that in to you. Maybe you are not "The One" and he is not it for you. Couples are in such a rush to check a box because they "should". If you are asked if you SO is "The One" and there is ANY OTHER ANSWER that comes out of your mouth but YES, he is NOT the one. Sounds like a lot of you are just wasting time on someone that you hope will ask you. If he is the right one, it is something you talk about and plan. When it's the right one, you cannot wait for the future and are excited to move along. Stop wasting your lives with what you think you *should* do and what *should* happen. You'll be sorry when it's been 9 years and you find him in bed with your cousin or some shit.