How much of it is society's pressure or personal pressure? What I see is everyone putting pressure on people. The pattern is something like: If you are dating= when will you get engaged? When you get married = when will you have kids? When you have a kid = when will you have the next one? And it doesn't stop when you're a parent! Those people aren't there when you try to navigate the results of your decisions. 

Extremely Happy is a wonderful place to be in!smiley: happy But if it is what you want, why not just bring it up to him?!