Honestly, I didn't explain it all out because I wasn't trying to get into everything that was going on.  I just wanted JJb's opinion on that one little part and whether or not to say something to him about it.  It's like it all catapolted out of proportion to me.  Everyone read extra shit into it and then I felt like I was defending myself.  I try to be neutral even when I'm there with them. I just know what it's like and how to deal with a child with issues.  I'm trying to teach him what I know by osmosis.  I do something without asking her any questions, she responds positively, and he takes note of it.  If you have ever been around a man it is way easier to show their dumb asses rather than tell them.  They are like children.  I'm not gonna be around forever and he needs to learn to handle her better than he does now.