I'm kinda the only female around her other than her grandmother.  I do little stuff, like leave things there that she eats, that he doesn't.  Give her drawing books, color pencils, teach him how to make things that she might like that don't involve red meat (she doesn't eat it).  I helped him plan her little birthday celebration.  We bought the stuff, I helped him set it up and then I left.  I thought the actual celebration should have just been between them.  But I can stop.  Sometimes I feel bad for her though, even though I don't say anything.  She is totally a fish out of water here and he doesn't understand.  He loves her but misses a lot and I had a lot of problems as a kid.  Even though I didn't act out like she does, the low self esteem, the body issues, things that she writes... The list goes on.  Sigh.  Whatever.  I'll stop hanging out with him.  

Edited By: pt84 10/02/2012 8:38 PM. Edited 1 times.