lol and no I am not saying we never have sex (though it isn't often and pretty much never when she is around). We dated off and on for like two years in between other people. Some personal issues that i had and stuff that he is dealing with, mostly with her, made us cool it but we still hang out one to three times a week. Ex. last week he called I picked both of them up and we went grocery shopping. I helped her cook and then went home.

He keeps things from her that can be negative; internet, any pills or anything that can be used as a drug in the house, monitors her phone calls, the types of music she listens to. He encourages positive hobbies like drawing and painting (when she started getting into trouble she stopped), reading, poetry, etc. She is a smart kid decent (my nieces would run psychotic rainbows around her) just seems to be easily influenced by negativity.