And I think that the person who is pursing initially should foot the bill for the first while.  If you're pursuing ME, then take me out for Christ's sake! smiley: tongue

Afterwards, when real life sets in (which maybe isn't very long if you're anti-traditional, or after a couple of dates) then I would start picking up each others' tabs, etc. It doesn't have to be lavish, but jeeze, treat me to a burger on the second date if you're pursuing me.

Edited By: mableberry 08/04/2012 2:58 PM. Edited 1 times.