I dunno, I really like the idea of "lover's accounting" where you take turns paying/treating each other.  I kind of hate having to take out our cards and split the check. I don't think one person should always pay but I think it's kind of nice to take turns paying the bill if you're non-traditional. I'm in a long-term relationship and it feels more like a date when one of us pays the check. Is that silly?

I don't know how she could bring it up, though...