She doesn't sound like she looks down on singles, she sounds like she's insecure in her marriage and is jealous of hot girls. 

Yeah, the second one just seems seriously insecure.

I don't know why the first one would think all single people do is drink, hunt, and party...honestly, some married people do that too.  They're missing out on good friendships by boxing themselves in like that.  One of my best friends is single and she's not exactly dancing on bars, she's an amazing person and just happens to be single because she gives the wrong guys most of her time.