TheFreshPrincess wrote:
passionfruit23 wrote:
MissDivaDoll wrote:



OMG, I'm so curious but I'm not sure if I can figure out how to open this file by myself and asking someone else would be a little awkward. smiley: laugh  But yeah, have you read it?  Is it really groundbreaking information?

This link doesn't work for me either. Is there another one? #dontjudgeme

The link can't get it up?!smiley: laugh

First thing, what do you want? I really like what that article said about having your own standards though. If you just want a Friend-with-Benefits - and you have the right as a grown ass woman to want that. But then some of this is mute. But if you want a relationship there a different expectations.

To share my own experience...not with blowjobs!....but with guys liking yousmiley: laugh
I had a good friend who told me simply: "if a guy likes you, you will know." I really thought she was nuts - that it wasn't that simple. But I have found it's pretty true. A guy will pursue you in some way or respond to you. Pretty much what that article said. Now, he may like you and still put stuff before you - but that means you aren't a priority. Even super shy guys will found a way to be around you or stay in touch. If you have to initiate everything and always chase him...You may want to take a breath and ask yourself if you are okay with that. 

Think of it like shopping for clothes...It so frustrating trying on stuff that does fit. But it's not your fault. The clothes were made for line one body type and mass produced. They didn't account for every women's body and height etc. (It took one of those fashion makeover shows before I got this! It still hurts like hell.) When you find the right pieces, they give back to you. They make you feel good and make your body look good. 

So with guys, he is either a good fit for you, an okay fit for you, or a bad fit for you.