I did tell him off eventually. He wouldn't leave me alone and each email turned into more and more bullshit.

In the email that set me off and made me respond, he tried to justify his actions by shifting all the blame onto me by saying I was trying to push him into a relationship when he just wanted to go slow. I was "very eager" in the bedroom and pushed him into sleeping with me when all he wanted to do was be friends first and respect me. In his mind we were just friends all along so he felt it was ok to talk to me about other girls. Besides we didn't talk for 2 days before he met back up with her, so since SO much time had passed, he thought we were back in the friendzone. Poor him, I'm so mean and hateful for disliking him for doing that.

He's such a damn liar. I don't know why he's fucking with me and trying to play down the fact that we did indeed date and have a romantic relationship. HE approached me. HE took me out on dates. HE kissed me. HE constantly walked around with his arms around me or held my hand. HE slept with his arms around me kissing me at night. If we ever stopped touching he'd pull me back close. When we first had sex HE was the one in control most of the time. HE was the one to admit first that he was developing feelings for me. I could go on. He was just as interested as I was and he knows it, everything was mutual. We had great chemistry and everything just flowed which is what was so great about us.

Maybe he changed his mind when he came across someone else. He did something douchey and it didn't work out .. ok fine whateve,r just own your shit. I mean especially if you're trying to apologize and win me back. Don't try to rewrite history to paint yourself in a better light. Be a fucking man. How is deflecting the blame on me going to make me wanna take him back? UGH that pissed me off. Pretty insulting. FindYourselfHere is so on the money about what kinda person he is and what kinda game he's pulling.

I gotta say, I wish I would've taken the advice here or listened my own gut and just ignored him because since I responded he keeps writing back even more trying to argue and shift the blame onto me. Unwanted stress and drama.

Edited By: TheFightingBetta 06/01/2012 2:52 PM. Edited 1 times.