I know he's going to pay the bills I'm just not sure how to go about talking to him about it or anything when he won't even talk to me to my face. This has all been done via text messages because he's too weak to talk to me in person. He was always like that though so I'm not surprised. My oldest son is 14 but he won't go near the baby. My daughters are 12 and 8 but my 12 year old isn't ready to watch a newborn. Maybe when he's older.