Omg no way! I literally just gasped out loud. I am so sorry Maybe he's just having trouble adjusting to life with a newborn that wasn't planned? Or maybe an early midlife crisis kind of thing?

I know a LOT of couples who have gone through phases like that, especially after a big change has occurred (new baby, death in the family, a big move, etc) and many times they were able to work through their problems after a little while and are still married. To be honest, the majority of married couples I know who have been together as long as you've been with your husband (and longer) have separated at least once during their marriage. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!