I thought he was super charming and attractive and manly. He basically rescued me from a bad relationship. Moved me out of that house. We didn't really rush we met I think December 10th, 2009. He wasn't around much because he had a bunch of family and business trips out of state and I was working a ton. I did fall for him early on though.. I still adore him. I agree sex is important. We have amazing sex and we connect, he is my soul mate.