I am going through basically the same thing as you so I can totally relate.

Been seeing this guy a little over a month now. Once a week, very casual and slow. Our first date was fantastic. He spoke a little bit about how he has dated women who talk about commitment and such on the first date and it freaks him out, we also both agree on the fact that we love our "me time" and we are both very go with the flow. Ended the date with an awesome kiss. 2nd date was a daytime thing we just hung out and went for a walk and drank at a bar.. ended with an awkward kiss that we often joke about. 3rd date was dinner and also the moment when I really started to like him.

Anyways, we have hung out like 6 times now and no sex yet. Don't listen to your co-workers.. I believe it will happen when you both want it to happen and the time is right. Especially if you really like the guy, you will wait and so will he. There are no rules about this. 

When we are on dates, he is extremely affectionate towards me (kissing, holding hands, lots of touching, etc.) which I love. However, I am still going through these stages of anxiety and nervousness because I am really starting to like this guy but am unsure of his feelings towards me. For example, it is late Thursday night and he has not initiated another date. Although we stay in contact throughout the week, and say things like "the next time we hang out..." I feel like he should have asked me by now to hang out this weekend especially since I initiated last weekend. Or maybe we should step it up a bit and hang out more than just once a week at this point. I mean if he really enjoyed spending time with me wouldn't he want to see me? Is this just me being insecure?

I guess my fear is, I don't want to like him so much if I don't get the same in return. Ughh! Didn't mean to make this so long.. Just wanted you to know you are not alone!!

Edited By: PRIORisMYdesire 04/26/2012 11:32 PM. Edited 1 times.