Many of you hit the nail on the head with the things said to me. I've had the situation really bothering me ever since it happened. However, I have a much different feeling now. Of course I wish we didn't end up this way, but I'm not stressed about it. I believe I'm finally ok with letting her go and moving on, without trying to over analyze and figure out why it happened or reliving the day she hurt me in my head. And in years to come, I'm sure it will become easier to not care. I described earlier in the post that I felt like I had this huge grudge weighing over me, it was crazy how terrible I felt about it last week. I would wake up and instantly think about the situation while I was in bed. Then I would continue to do so through out the day off and on, every single day. Hearing from someone that she was being nosy and asking about me is what triggered it for me last week.

I can already tell that any hurtful feelings that I originally had, have faded away tremendously. Hearing everyone's similar stories of disappointment and betrayal, giving me advice on what I need to do, and the many supportive words really helped me. Even though I talked about it with my friends & family and they told me to "let it go/she is no longer the person she used to be", posting this really helped me even better. Everything said in this post is what I needed to hear, especially from SO many people. I'm going to do what many of you told me to do, I will let it go. Thank you so much, I really do appreciate it. <3 I'm in such an optimistic mood. I never knew that this board could be so kind and sweet!

Edited By: Lillies In Bloom 01/15/2012 6:38 AM. Edited 1 times.