Manda2119 wrote:
It's so hard to remember this. I have literally not spoken to or of my former friend to anyone that we are both acquaintances with. I know I can't control what she's spewing to other people but it's frustrating to see it on say facebook. I'll take the high road, I could call her out on all her shit and I just really want to tell her to keep anything relating to me out of her mouth, forget you knew me if that helps.


Are you me? lol

Have to admit, even when I can't actually see/hear it for myself I do sometimes struggle just with knowing that this bullshit version of the story is going around. Even though I know all the important people do know the truth it still kind of sticks in the throat. For all my faults, I'm nothing like I'm being painted to be - that's when it starts to drive me a bit crazy and I have to repeat the mantra about what I can control. I cannot stop people gettign the wrong end of the stick or talking shit, I just have to do what I can do with myself which is to focus on better stuff.