I got one thing (that stuck out to me) from reading your first post, and now your last post just reiterated that for me.

She's shady. She grew up to be a shady person, and that has absolutely nothing to do with you. I wasn't going to ask if she came from 'ghetto-er' class, if you will (it's cool, i grew up super poor), but I've known my share of girls that are wonderful childhood friends who grew up to be completely different people in which environment sometimes plays a role. I'm not saying this is her case, but i've seen this a lot.

Another thing that is still sort of the same thing. You two grew apart. You grew not just in age but in different directions of personalities. It happens, it happens even when we're older, but it happens more when we're younger. Realistically, more times than not, we are not going to be friends with the same person we were friends with in middle school by the time we're 30. Or sometimes we are friends with that same person, but with a break of a decade or so in between. What i'm saying is people change, and you guys are at an age where change is natural and can happen fast.

As far as the jeans thing, it's obvious she was wearing them, and she clearly didn't want to return them. You were not out of place in asking for them, it's your clothes, but that right there was her showing the beginning of her shadiness. That's like huge red flag right there.

Another thing i took away from reading those texts she sent you, she thinks you're needy. And it's annoying to her. But you know what? That has nothing to do with you, you're not at fault here for anything. She is a crappy friend. You two are just different people now, and I know it hurts when that person you cared about so much was seemingly replaced by another meaner person, but unfortunately it happens.

The only thing you can do now is let it go, don't let this burden you. Remember happier times when the time is right, but for right now just let, it, go. Know that you were a good friend, know that you tried, know that you did nothing wrong, and move on with your life. In time she will hopefully appreciate what she doesn't appreciate now.

Edited By: Jeannine8 01/14/2012 7:31 AM. Edited 1 times.