Thank you everyone for the encouraging words and sharing similar stories, or just stories in general. It did make me feel better.

I want to remind everyone that the weirdness DID start with the clothes and it was a factor, but it wasn't my main problem. I wanted the clothes, but it didn't stress me out. It was the fact that my own "best friend" would never be available, or at least attempt to return my calls. It felt like she blew me off and never was there for me.

Honestly, I can't even front about her being mean...I'm thinking about the past because I read everyone's post. I definitely have seen/heard her treat two of her other friends crappy. One time we were bickering over who-calls-who-often, she told me something like, "[A school mate that I think she was close to in high school] called me the other day and I said I would call her back, but I didn't. I just have other things on my mind." And for some reason I felt guilty for our bickering because I started it, so I said "I hope you don't think I'm a bitch." She told me "Noooo, you're not. It's me that's the bitch, not you." I'm thinking that now I should apply this to my issue. There were a few other stories I know where she was a little mean, but I never experienced her attitude at all at the time. She never was mean to me, so I never took it serious. I guess this means I wasn't an exception.

Julia Sugarbaker, I am looking mainly for support and I would appreciate/like to hear honesty, but if it's going to make me feel worse or may possibly make me feel guilty, I'd prefer not to hear it.

"dogfoot75: You shouldn't have pushed the clothes thing so hard. Clearly, she kept them and was wearing them. It was like, a year and a half; that's ridic."      
^ These clothes were a lot of money, I wanted them back. Yeah I should've made sure I didn't forget and left them, but I trusted her to give them to me. I didn't always press her about them. There were multiple times that I would leave it be, but she would be the one to tell me on her own freewill without me even mentioning it that she's going to send it. So of course, if she's going to CALL me to say she has them, why wouldn't I say 'Ok, send it.' !

HumpThatStage, thank you on the very long answer for a very long post. Haha.

"Totally NSYNC: Is she friends with different people now? That's pretty much what I guessed to be the idea with my ex-friend. If she hangs with a different crowd now, perhaps she doesn't think you fit in with her new life. When people change sometimes they don't want to be bothered with people they were close to before."
^ No, actually she doesn't really have friends or any close friends. Everyone else is just people she talks to in school, or coworkers. The people that are close to her is just mainly family and was me. While we had (at the time) matching personalities and interests, her & I do live completely different lifestyles. Her life is very unstable. I live in the suburbs, while she doesn't live in the good part of her town (environment is dangerous). She's promiscious, I'm not. When we were still friends last year, she was last dating a divorced 40 year old man. Her mother has a new child every single year ever since I was young, she gave birth to the ninth or tenth child last year. My ex-friend was the oldest of all of them. I went through a phase during our freshman and sophomore high school where it was difficult for me to relate to her because she had outrageous sex stories (i.e.: When we were 15, she was telling me how she went to get her belly pierced, and had sex with the piercer. o_O). She was crazy over guys and was pretty much a whore, but I did not judge her one bit because she was my bestfriend. The most I would do is try to stop her from going around giving up her goods. Her life was crazy compared to mine.

Edited By: Lillies In Bloom 01/15/2012 6:41 AM. Edited 2 times.