I'm sorry. The whole idea of not knowing what the real problem is might be making this even harder on you. I went through a similar situation but I didn't bother to ask questions.


Is she friends with different people now? That's pretty much what I guessed to be the idea with my ex-friend. If she hangs with a different crowd now, perhaps she doesn't think you fit in with her new life. When people change sometimes they don't want to be bothered with people they were close to before. Sometimes it's because they're going through a hard time and so are all of their new friends or sometimes like in the case of my ex-friend they are part of a crowd they consider to be better than the old crowd in some way and they don't want to be associated with anyone outside of that circle.

If she's not really close with anyone from the past or only with someone who is pretty much just like her, this could be the case.