She sounds like my ex. "Just let it go before you piss me off more." Because it's all about THEM. You had every right to ask for your clothes back and no one is that busy, that she couldn't get those out to you in over a year.

You both grew up and ended up growing apart because SHE changed too much. It's hard to believe sometimes or let that go because you've been friends for so long.

And what irritates me GREATLY about people like her (at least how she comes off), is that the people who blame others for being "drama" are almost always the ones who have started said drama. Those types of people don't like to take blame for anything they say or do.

The best advice is, yes, to let her go and forget about it. But it's easier said than done. When you haven't actually done anything wrong, it's that much harder to let go. I'm sorry this has happened to you. As for her asking about you...try not to question that either, even though it's hard. It probably has more to do with her than it actually does with wanting to know about you. She seems selfish.