I'm done explaining anything to you."


Heh. From this story it doesn't appear that she's explained a single damn thing.

I can't say I've ever been in anything like your specific situation, but I have had my best friend suddenly pull shit and bail in the past. You're right when you say there's nothing that hurts like it, it's horrific. It comes off like her problem is that you refused to let her walk all over you and you demanded explanations/what was yours etc?

It sounds trite but it's so true - when people like this decide to show their true colours, they are inadvertently doing you the biggest favour. As much as it hurts to realise that this friendship you treasured isn't what you thought it was it is just not worth having people like that in your life causing you all this grief