celebtrashwhore wrote:
He up and moved 3hrs back home and now only comes once a week for a few hours to an apt thats empty the rest of the week? Did he have a job when you met him? Or hes in school? Did you ever meet any of his friends? Does he talk to his parents on the phone when youre with him?

The entire situation just seems weird. Its also odd that his parents have now set a curfew for when he has to be home. I hope its not something super bizarre like hes actually in jail or something lol. Coming out for weekend release.
He still has the apartment here in town and comes in about once a week for a few hours. He doesn't have a job but is looking for one. He's not in school. He doesn't have any friends up in this area at all.. He's never gotten any phone calls when I'm with him. He had a job up until aug and saved up a bunch of money from that which he is living off of.

I dont know if it's a set curfew by his parents or what it is. I was told his mom wants him home earlier than the first time (which was after midnight) and he seemed to rush home by 7pm the last time we were together.

Mistress Darcy wrote:
So, what scenario adds up for you that he has family issues that he cannot even mention briefly? Like, oh, my dad is sick or my sister is having some issues with her husband or whatever else. Which scenario makes sense for you why he cannot tell his serious, official girlfriend literally anything?
we have not been together that long to discuss personal issues is my other thought on this whole thing. 3 months isn't that long to start going into family things that maybe huge in his eyes.

why would he be here in the area for a few weeks after our first date then all of a sudden have to rush home for a big family matter and stay there? He wouldn't have been up here for a few weeks if that were the case. It would have been him going back and forth from the start.

thanks for the advice. I will take it and figure it out from here!

Edited By: Jrtismine 12/28/2011 10:27 PM. Edited 1 times.