Jrtismine wrote:
LoungeChair wrote:
Jrtismine wrote:

i truely believe it's something going on in the family though. Maybe I'm just naive on the whole thing.
Even if it truly is something going on with family, clearly, you're not happy with the situation. So if that's the case, why would you stay with someone who you don't even get 24 hours a week with? I'm telling you family is just the easy excuse for a guy to use when he's hiding something. In dating situations (IME), it's usually a default for "another person" in the picture.

i'm not happy with the situation but I do like him a lot and want things to continue if things were to be different. I just don't see it being another person in the picture. That to me doesn't add up. maybe i should just back burner this until he shares, or its resolved. i never thought about being the part time girlfriend. i just like him a hell of a lot and part of me wants to give it another month or so and see if things change. if not then just be done. but then its the whole other aspect of why wait?


If you see him  < 24 hrs a week, honey you ARE a part-time girlfriend. 

Part time girlfriend does not = relationship.