Sleepn wrote:
i think it's fair to give a gentle 'ultimatum' that if you're going to continue with him it's fair to know some details of his un-/availability.

i've tried to push for details. He wants me to open up about my feelings more (I tend to bottle how I'm feeling then explode) and I said to him. Why should I open up if you can't open up about whats going on at home? He ignored that I said that. I've pushed and I get "it's gotta be this way for the near future but i understand if you dont want to continue on" and he did say something like he doesn't see it being a long term thing him being home.