imCATastrophic wrote:
You are already starting to defend his actions, no matter how much you say you are trying to "distance" yourself. You should have cut it off the minute you knew he had a girlfriend. They have had three years together to make memories, become part of each others families, take a step towards making a life together by moving in together. He has gotten bored with what he has at home, and like someone else said, he's found a shiny new toy to play with. Are you seriously trying to romanticize him to anyone? He is a piece of shit and so are you for continuing this after learning he had a girlfriend.

In the words of Tyler Durden, you are not a unique snowflake. smiley: laugh And you are NOTHING more than a game to him! So save yourself the embarrassment, stop this now, and don't waste your time giving him ultimatums. Find someone who is SINGLE, and who is NOT willing to cheat on his girlfriend. The only kind of woman who would want that kind of man is one who is desperate for attention. You might be a great person but you are making a really shitty decision by seeing this guy behind his girlfriend's back.
well said.