Yeah...what can I say, I'm so used to not being the "only girl in the world," it is totally undisturbing to me. If you want to hear a sob story, every boyfriend I've ever had has cheated on me, and I've been the "other woman" before. I've been hit on so many times by married/taken men, I can't even count. What I see over and over again is the guy feels liberated because he can admit to me who he really is (unfaithful), but he maintains an illusion of fidelity for the girlfriend. In the mix of things, I get super jaded...and the girlfriend knows nothing and continues believing she's found true love. This is what I've seen of the world.

But, you guys are right. If he really likes me so much as he seems to, he needs to put his money where is mouth is. And be with me, like officially and shit.