It's one thing to fall for someone who isn't available, it's another thing entirely how people delude themselves into thinking it's OK to pursue it. Love/lust is blind, I guess.

Yea, cheating is bad, but moral or not; even if you can't see that you should still be able to realize he's shady. Secret keeping and sneaking around are not traits most look for in a guy. If he likes you so much he'd be with you. He may like you but he's obviously trying to 'have his cake and eat it too' as they say. It's not worth it. It's not only pretty tactless on your part but he's obviously playing you and you're looking the fool here. Don't be that girl. The end.

If you're as 'great' as he says you are, surely you can find a nice SINGLE guy sans all the complications, yes?

People like this ask for advice, get mad when people give it and keep on doing what they do. But hopefully you will get the message SOON and ditch this guy. Are you seriously happy 'sharing' him? Keeping his LIES secret and sneaking around? This is your ideal relationship? Are you really that starved for attention? Wake up, girl. That's blunt but hey, the truth stings.

Edited By: All That Jaz 11/11/2011 4:44 AM. Edited 2 times.